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Shouldnt my wife of lost all of her baby weight by now?
She had a baby just a little over 9 months ago and still weighs 135 lbs. She is nursing.. and has had two other kids under 6. IS the nursing the fact that she still hasnt lost those extra lbs? im getting worried she is gonig to stay this size. She eats very healthy and exercises and cares.. but she isnt tipping the scales any lower….
she is a size 6, but she use to always be a 3/4
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A size 6 for a mother of 3 is great! As long as she’s fit and cares about herself, why are you worried? Maybe she wishes you were more perfect in some areas of your body as well.
umm don’t be a jerk your wife has her hands full and she may never lose that weight because it may not be weight at all but extra skin. get over it.
you are a loser
If that’s all you’re concerned about, I hope she finds a new husband.
She may never lose the baby weight.
Size 6 is not large by any stretch of the imagination!
shame on you, she has just given birth to your child.
are you serious?? does your wife weight seriously effect you that much?? so what if shes a size six now? there plenty of women out there that would love to be a size six & havent even been pregnant .. im sure if you love her youll deal with the extra, lets say, 20 lbs or so .. if not, your just an a**hole =]
also im pretty sure you might have also gained some weight during her pregnancy .. whos to say that you dont need to lose some of that extra weight? your wife needs to find a new understanding & caring husband & divorce your dumba$$ .. soon!
okay, you better watch out. you’ve posted this question in a section FULL of pregnant and post partum women!! anyhow, it takes time. and don’t give her flack for it. its not her fault. every pregnancy and after is going to be different.
Wow. I would love to be married to you!
Give her a break geez. She has 3 kids, to be back in a size 6 is a wonderful thing, maybe you should appreciate her new body, and the fact that she’s still skinny.
You didn’t state how tall she is, but 135 sounds not bad at all! Sometimes as we get older it’s just more difficult to lose weight. Maybe you should focus on what a good mother she is instead of worrying about her dress size.
On the BF-ing note though, the body does tend to hold on to some fluid weight when breastfeeding – call it the body’s way of hedging against the baby starving to death.
*sigh* maybe you should just divorce her since she’s obviously a disgusting pig. oohhh wait, YOU’RE the disgusting pig. how about having a little compassion for the mother of your children? she’s 135??? that’s a twig if you ask me. why don’t you get a hobby and not concern yourself with your wife’s weight? that’s my advice.
she could have something wrong with her hormones and that could be why the weight isn’t coming off.. My mother, after she had me, for the life of her could NOT lose the last 10 lbs! She went to the doc and found her hormones were out of whack from the pregnancy (her progesterone). Once she got it all in order the lbs came off naturally. it was actually kind of crazy because she didn’t even have to workout, it literally just melted off.. good luck!
To answer your question, breast feeding actually helps a woman to loose the weight after having a baby.
That being said, 135 pounds is not at all unhealthy! A size 6?? Are you seriously that shallow? Your wife sounds very healthy! A woman’s body is not the same after a child, let alone 3! You should be honored that your wife has blessed you with 3 wonderful children and stop being a shallow a$$hole! I hope to god she doesn’t ever see this post of yours! You should be grateful that she slept with you and stop worrying about weather or not she will ever be a size 3/4 again! jerk!
135lbs is thin enough. How much do you weigh? She may never get back down to a 3/4 as pregnancy does funny things to the body. Love your wife for who she is not how big/small she is.
Its HARD after a baby let me tell you!
I lost all my weight, but I still have a BABY POUCH~ and it looks like extra weight all over but its not!
Welcome to Mommy World….
A size 6 is a good size, she does not need to be any smaller! You should love her the way she is!
I went from a size 6 to a size 10…but the weight is the same when I wore a size 4/6
WTF? You are a rude man. A size 6 is in great shape. Get over yourself. I bet you are no "trophy" husband yourself!
are you serious? you sound like a jerk…
maybe your just a troll!….
Wow 135 and you’re complaining? I would hate to be your wife and feel like a failure for being at a perfect weight and size. Try getting used to the new her. She sounds like a great mom and should be more worried about taking care of the children then trying to satisfy the biggest baby in the family by getting back to her pre-pregnancy weight.
WOW are you serious???? I can’t stand men like you. My mom’s friend was married to a guy like you and he left her after she had the baby cause she couldn’t lose the weight and he said she was "fat." That is seriously what you are concerned about? Not, is my wife and baby ok? HA My husband loves me just the way I am and I am very thankful I didn’t end up with a loser like you. Man if her size is the only reason you are with her and you are that vain maybe she shouldn’t have birthed your children. What did you think happened when people get pregnant and have babies? I just can’t with this, despicable.
You are such an ignorant pig!!! SIZE 6!? Are you effing kidding me!!!!? I was a size 5 (130lbs) before I got pregnant and now 14 months post partum I am a size 8 (150lbs). I still have not lost all of my baby weight. I would DIE to be a size 6!!!! give her a break! I REALLY hope she divources you!!!!!
I wish I wore a size six
I weigh 155 pounds and I am proud of it!
Jerk.
Size six is a great size if she had 3 kids u need to me more supportive. =)
I really hope you are not serious and if you are, I really hope your wife never finds out you feel this way! A size 6????? Seriously?!?!?! A size 6 is TINY!!! Grow up and support your wife no matter what her size is!
Your wife is nursing which can be known to keep the weight on for a little longer!
Does it really bother you that she is a size 6? A size 6 is pretty skinny anyways. I don’t think it should! If she eats healthy, exercises, and is always running after your children under 6 she will eventually lose the weight! It takes time to lose weight. Just relax your wife probably still looks great at a size 6!
LOL I can’t even believe you have a baby & everything with this woman and all you’re worried about is her weight?
It’s guys like you that make women feel like they have to live up to someone ELSES standards. If she’s happy then leave it be, you shouldn’t give a flying f**k about her weight.
If you didn’t want her to gain weight then maybe you should think about that next time you knock her up.
Stupid ass.
Well she had 3 kids in 6 years I think she deserves an award for squeezing her behind into a size 6 because I sure can’t!!! Nursing burns calories. That’s not why. Each pregnancy takes longer to get back to normal from. Quit being an ***!
your an ignorant a s s…..if you are no a troll that is…seriously…what a rude thing to ask…
I hope she sees this question.
Should is your question though, ‘should’ needs to be qualified. Should she have lost it to please you, evidently so. Should she be smaller to be accepted by society, no.
What is her cholesterol count? What is her blood pressure? Why are you worried? If you are not attracted to her you owe it to her to tell her that 135 lbs is not acceptable to you, forget that she destroyed her body bearing your children. Tell her that is not a sacrifice that is acceptable to you.
And while you’re at it please post a picture of your very tiny penis so we can all tut tut tut at your personal flaw as well. Assuming from your attitude here that you’re God’s Gift to women I’m sure the thought of that doesn’t threaten you at all.
I hope this is some sort of joke, but in reality you probably really think this is a problem. wow.
I am 5’9" and am back to my pre-pregnancy weight of (coincidentally) 135! HOWEVER… I am no longer a 4 I am now a 6 or 8. BUT I AM THE SAME WEIGHT AS BEFORE!
Nature widened my hips and gave me bigger boobs and I highly doubt I will ever be as small as I once was.
OOOH WELL.
You’re an asshole. She had your children and is taking care of them and all you care about it her weight?! Maybe the stress of taking care of your children and having a jackass of a husband isn’t helping her lose weight.
Listen, unfortunately not all women that give birth are like the celebrities you see on tv. Normal people DON"T have personal trainers everyday or other super weight loss secrets. Its not unusual for your wife to still have some of the weight she gained during pregnancy. Depending on how long after the last child you both waited to have another will greatly affect how quick she can bounce back. Unfortunately, women are not always 100% how our bodies will be affected by pregnancy or how easy/hard it will be to bounce back. And regardless of what men think, its very hard to lose the weight.
So, if you want her to lose the weight, that might take some actual support and motivation on your part. And you may have to include yourself in the process.
You mentioned she has two other children under the age of 6? So im assuming shes a stay at home mom right? That doesn’t give her much time to herself to exercise. Loosing postpartum weight includes alot of regular exercise and healthy habits. Remember that right now she is still breast feeding, so she has to consume more calories a day to sustain normal milk production and sustain her health.
Also, you may not notice but women DO notice when our partner is not happy with our body. She may be feeling self-concious and not very motivated. What you can do to help her is reassure her of how beautiful she is to you. Work out with her, eat healthy with her, make goals of achieving a fitter figure and healthier habits.
I gained an astonishing 60lbs with my first and only pregnancy. It took me less time to loose the weight but I think it was because I have more time to do what I want. But what I think helped the most and made my husband (who was unhappy with my weight gain) happy was joining a cardio boxing class together. Having his support helped motivate me so much I am again trim and fit. Your wife needs to feel that from you and not just hear it. I guarantee it will make a difference if you do something together to help her get back into her skinny jeans.
Loser
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